It is with profound sadness and broken hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved Christopher J.A. Noskey, affectionately and artistically known by many as Frill Letendre. Christopher’s unexpected departure has left a space in our hearts that no words can truly mend—an unfillable void for those fortunate enough to have known his warmth, his brilliance, and his extraordinary spirit.
A Soul Full of Light and Love
Christopher was more than just a beloved family member, friend, or colleague—he was a force of nature whose presence could light up the darkest of rooms. As Frill Letendre, he captivated audiences with his creativity, his bold self-expression, and his unwavering courage to be exactly who he was. Through performance, fashion, art, or simply conversation, he inspired others to live more authentically and love more deeply.
To know Christopher was to know kindness, laughter, and generosity. He had the rare ability to make anyone feel seen and valued, whether they had just met him or known him for years. His laughter was infectious, his stories unforgettable, and his heart incredibly large.
A Devastating Loss, A Lasting Legacy
Christopher’s passing has shaken the core of our community, his chosen family, and all who were touched by his vibrant presence. For those who knew him personally, the loss feels surreal—like a star has vanished from the night sky. He leaves behind cherished memories, unspoken dreams, and a legacy defined by love, authenticity, and unapologetic beauty.
While we grieve this tremendous loss, we also celebrate the life he lived—a life full of color, compassion, and courage. He lived as an example of how to embrace one’s truth and lift others in the process.
🕊️ Honoring Christopher
Plans for a celebration of Christopher’s life will be shared in the coming days, and we invite everyone who loved him to come together in remembrance. It will be a space of tears and laughter, of music and memories, reflecting the spirit of the one we’ve lost but will never forget.
In lieu of flowers, the family invites those who wish to honor Christopher’s memory to consider donating to LGBTQ+ organizations, mental health support initiatives, or local arts programs—causes that were close to his heart and reflected his values.
💬 A Final Word
It is often said that grief is the price we pay for love. And while we are heartbroken beyond measure, we are also grateful—grateful to have known someone as beautiful, as brilliant, and as bold as Christopher J.A. Noskey.
We miss you, Christopher. We miss your light, your voice, your spirit. The world was more radiant with you in it, and though you are no longer here in body, your energy lives on—in the art, the memories, and the love you gave so freely.
Rest gently, Frill. Shine on forever.